Best Strap-ons & Harness2021-02-09T07:34:39-08:00

Redefining Sexual Fantasies

Strap-ons have broadened the scope of sexual adventures in what was once a very limited ordeal. Gone are the days where you need only to rely on a man and all his variables, to get the same penetrating pleasure you desire. You might be a lesbian looking to satisfy your woman with more than your mouth and hands, and these harness and strap-on collections give you the power to stroke her all night while your hands are free to caress her body. You might be a young guy thinking about surprising your partner with a bigger size cock, and with a hollow strap-on, you have that option. You might even be a gender-bender looking for your woman to give you a little Femdom action, and with our various sizes you can start slowly and upgrade as you choose. Strap-ons take the mundane sex you’re used to, and kicks the stick into fifth gear!

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Find your favorite one

Your favorite strap-on is going to improve your sex-life by means of durability, style, fit, and most of all comfort. We have an assortment of what market experts call the “best of.” To start, choose a harness—many of them come with features that make dildo substitution simple, so go for the harness that screams your name, first. Metal (and in some cases rubber) and plastic rings in the harness, hold the dildo in place and you can decide next, which dildo is best for you and your partner based on size, texture and functionality. Strapless strap-ons are the cream of the crop when it comes to both ladies getting their needs met simultaneously, so check out the variety of those before deciding on a traditional set. Strap-ons aren’t just for the ladies either! Hollow strap-on dildos are a convenient way for you fellas to enhance your love stick, when the time comes. We carry a selection of harnesses that will fit any body and gender.

Bestseller models

Strap-ons have become such a popular sex addition, there are many styles, brands, fits, and functions on the market. We decided to help you out by creating a bestseller list, to show you what others, across the nation, say works best for them. This list was compiled to aid you in finding the right style, fit, and function for whatever your bedroom is missing. Make sure there’s a winner between your legs!

Materials matter

Harness cloth

We have everyone in mind when it comes to the harness. Whether you prefer the rugged feel of leather or you have a thing for a softer synthetic cloth, there’s something in store for you. No matter what you decide, our harnesses will hold your cock just right.

Mount

Metal cock rings or plastics mounts are used most often with strap-ons. Metal rings will be heavier, strong and most reliable. Plastics are the same as metal in function, but lighter in weight. Both are splendid choices, it’s up to you to decide.

Silicone

Our dildos made for strap-ons are produced with high-quality, safe silicone with a natural touch to make you feel the pleasure of the real deal. It’s easy to wash, lubricate and is as durable as an army tank.

Plastic

For you that appreciate a more firm touch and feel, choose a plastic toy. They offer the sturdiness desired for that harder, pounding love-fest. No matter what you choose, plastic dildos are just as pleasant as silicone ones, just in a much different way.

Friendly

All of our toys are pleasant, comfortable, and safe. They contain no phthalates, they have hypoallergenic coatings, and the harnesses won’t bother your skin. Feel completely comfortable when making a selection from our Strap-On Collection. 

How to choose the best strap-on

Body knows

If you listen carefully, your body is your best guide to what will work for you. You’ve already imagined what the perfect strap-on would feel like, so we encourage you to go with that. As you peruse the section, pay attention to what each item looks like and imagine yourself using it. If it turns you on, it may be worth the shot!

Discuss

Partners are usually the most avid users of strap-ons, because it’d be pretty hard with just one person. With that said, always involve your partner(s) if you’re planning on a new purchase. Surprises are great if you’re sure its something your partner wants, but be sure to keep communication open with this type of toy.

Size & Shape

Strap on attachments can vary from vaginal to anal play, so be sure to choose the right one specific to your pleasure goals. If you are looking for deep penetration you can feel in your lungs, a 12” dildo might not scare you away. If you’re looking for more merciful entrance through the back door, try a smooth-tipped, shorter rod.

Golden rules on how to use strap-ons

Store safely

All materials are fragile to an extent, so store in a cool dry place. Constant heat or direct sunlight will be a slow death for your new favorite toy.

Respect

Always be sure your partner is enjoying the strap-on as much as you are. You want to remain attentive to your partner’s needs while engaging in strap-play. If needed, discuss using a safety word or gesture to ensure no one is uncomfortable or in pain. Your partner’s pleasure is your pleasure, so be cautious as well as adventurous. 

Lube

A general rule-of-thumb with strap-ons, is to use plenty of lube on the dildo. The last thing you want is to expect a fountain of pleasure gushing over, but then stumble across a dry chaffed Sahara.

Clean it

Strap-ons need plenty of love in the washing department. While washing and even boiling your non-mechanical dildos, you must not forget to clean the harness as well. Check the labels, but most materials can be washed either by hand or in the machine. 

Compatible supplements only

Be sure to use cleaning and lubricating supplements that match the materials in your strap-on. Some cleaning materials may strip or ruin the materials and some lubes may not be suitable for your particular dildo material. For example, a silicone lubricant can be especially harsh with a silicone dildo. Pay attention to the details!

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Femdom play

Always use caution if you are a beginner of any new sexual adventure. Specifically Femdom play, will require thorough preparation. Have you looked up anal douching? Yea, that’s the prep we’re talking about. Make sure you discuss sizes and penetration styles also to ensure everyone is having a good time. Discuss using condoms for polyamorous affairs.

Frequently Asked Questions

Are strap-ons only for lesbians?2020-05-27T09:55:21-07:00

Not at all. Anyone can enjoy the use of strap-ons in their sexual life, if the occasion calls for it. If you desire to use a strap-on as a compensation, supplementation, or multiple penetration, your wish is granted with strap-ons.

Are strap-ons for vaginal penetration only?2020-05-27T09:55:14-07:00

No, there are a variety of attachments and dildos you can use with your harness to penetrate the front or the rear walls. There are universal, vaginal and anal strap-on selections, choose what fits you best.

How can I clean my strap-on?2020-05-27T09:55:43-07:00

Warm water and soap after each use is always a good cleaning method. Other than that, you can boil your non-mechanical, silicone dildos to sterilize them. Harnesses should also be washed after every use to ensure germs aren’t settling there. Each toy should come with its own cleaning instructions, so look out for those too.

Will the harness fit my body type?2020-05-27T09:56:11-07:00

Each harness comes with sizes specified, but make sure you read the measurements to be sure it fits your body.

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