Written by Jay Johnson

Hey there Holy fam, we’re back to discuss another hard hitting topic (pun intended), double penetration. Double penetration is something that has been around since the beginning of sex, and like many other acts, is considered taboo to some. Not you, of course, since you’re shopping for sex toys online, using our site! But let’s explore the topic and go through some pros and cons that might help you (if you’re indecisive) to make a more educated decision about trying it.

So, the old double whammy, huh? Is that what kids are calling it these days? Well whatever trending nickname it’s been given, it means the same thing: two holes being penetrated at once. Alternatively, it also includes the act of penetrating one hole with two phalluses. So rest assured, anyone can enjoy the old double-double. But what makes DP so freaking good? What is so dang good about stuffing both holes?! I guess it’s all to do with how it’s introduced and the sensations it gives!

First let’s discuss a little anatomy. The anus is marked by two sphincters and is densely populated with nerve endings. Most are receptive to pain, but can be coaxed into pleasure with the right stimuli. We’ve all experienced that wonderful feeling of taking a big poo after those delicious nachos, haha. The external sphincter is the outer sphincter and it voluntarily moves, which means you control the clenching and releasing. The internal sphincter located inward, is involuntary and only opens as it feels relaxed. This is the reason it takes a while to take a poo sometimes, if you’re in public; you just aren’t relaxed enough. Additionally, the clitoris shaft and the root of the penis can be stimulated internally if you can get the internal sphincter to open up during sexual activities, making it fun for both men and women. But how do we get there? How do we get to a point that we are elated enough to enjoy the pleasures deep within?

Many people have explained their experiences with DP as having started in these sort of unofficial phases. First phase went from traditional sex to anal stimulation (or from anal penetration to anal stretching for the men). Fingers is the most common, either during oral sex or intercourse. A little slip of the moistened finger into the sphincter and surrounding areas, is how most people notice their response to the stimulation. Some have even reported a good tongue lashing to their anus has opened them up for further experimentation with the potential pleasure area. Whatever the case was, most gave positive responses to properly lubricated, gentle introductions to anal play. Jamming two fingers into a dry butt hole is definitely not turning anyone on, unless you’re a masochist then that’s a different blog altogether. So it’s widely agreed that the best way to enjoy and encourage the continuation of anal play, is to introduce with the first phase of gentle anal stimulation.

What came next in the second phase was full anal penetration. Just as in phase one, a certain gentleness is required to ensure it’s pleasurable and proper sensations are experienced. What’s imperative is paying attention to size and proper lubrication. Positive feedback was given with proper sizing of the toy or finger that was initially inserted and with good lubrication. Keep in mind that the anus is significantly more dry than the vagina so it will always require more moisture to avoid tearing and other uncomfortable sensations. Anal toys come in so may shapes and sizes, you are sure to find one that works for you or your partner, with a good lube to match foe maximum pleasure. The point is, to get yourself or your partner to fall in love with the feel of a stuffed poop chute. (Speaking of poop, make sure to have a good anal douche session before moving too far into phase two and definitely before the third phase.)

Moving right along in the sequence of events leading up to the grand act of DP, we have the third phase which is full-on anal fucking. Now I haven’t made it past the second phase myself, but not for fear of trying; I just really like teetering between phases one and two for my sexual adventures. But moving into the big leagues requires grace, patience and a whole lotta lube. Getting your ass fucked is no joke if it’s not done right, so make sure it is. Be sure that you have douched those nachos out of your bum, you have plenty of lube handy and you and your partner have a code word if something gets to be too much for either of you. Believe it or not, I have heard stories from male friends about an anus that clenched too tightly around their penis and caused them enough pain to scream out the safe word. So there goes the idea that the bottom needs to be the only one using it! Just like with anything sex related, it’s always recommended that you take things slower in the beginning and work your way up to the speed and depth that works for both of you. If you are administering this anal sex, thrust with caution and pay attention to verbal and physical cues from your partner. As long as you’re not hurting them to the point of stopping, increase velocity and power as encouraged. If you’re on the receiving end, don’t forget the code word! Ha!

Once you and your partner have mastered the art of sodomy, you may be ready to head in the direction of DP. This is the big kahuna of perforation because it’s gettin’ in two holes at once. If you can’t multitask, work on it a bit more through phases one and two before daring to try the ultimate pricking. You will obviously need a good dildo & harness attachment or double dildo and harness, so check out a few and see which ones you like as far as size and textures are concerned. We love the King Cock Small Double Trouble for beginners and the King Cock Triple Density Double Penetrator or Ruse Silicone Double Headed Dildo for more experienced dual hitters. Once you have your toys and lubes in place, a warm up is usually a good rule of thumb before getting right into it (pun intended, again). Starting with foreplay, regular intercourse, and a little anal play are great ways to get both you and your partner primed to get down to it. Once everyone’s revved and ready to go, strap up with your new toys, apply your lubrication and have at it! Double Penetration is the ultimate in drilling, so enjoy yourselves and remember those code words in case the jackhammer is a bit too much.

For you guy-on-guy participants of DP, you have the same gradual recommendations for easing the second phallus into the same hole, but yours won’t need quite as much coaxing since, presumably you’re already used to having the rear end in full effect. Just be sure the lines of communication are always open and there is plenty of lube to make the event a smooth ride.

All-in-all, there are so many things to gain from dual penetration that mainly deal with multiple orgasms. Because of the amount of nerve endings in both the vagina and the anus, you can have the most sensational sexual experience that leaves you writhing in pleasure from having them all aroused simultaneously. Anal orgasms are a new level of rapturous euphoria you can experience and should not be shied away from, for fear of pain. When done right, there can be mountains of pleasure and very little pain. Going back to my experiences, I remember my phase two, first-time anal orgasm.. OH BOY, I thought I was actually defecating on my partner’s fingers and while it mortified me into incessant apologizing, it felt great! It wasn’t until I turned around, still apologizing, that I realized I must’ve had an orgasm because there was no mess and no fuss. I expected to see a crime scene and there was nothing but my partner’s smirking face at my anxiety. Needless to say, it was a pleasant, sensational experience. Double penetration is definitely worth the exploration, just be sure to exercise caution, use the right toys and lubricants, and communicate everything with your partner(s).

Until next time..